BigDingus 4:09 Thu Aug 30
Divorce - Advice Needed please
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My wife (sorry no link) has decided to leave after 16 years of marriage. We currently live in rented accommodation so there are no finances to be split plus I have no savings or pension.
My wife however inherited a substantial amount a coupleof years ago which she has effectivlely 'hidden' away somewhere !
Before I contact a solicitor I was hoping that somebody could advise meas to if or how I can make a claim on this money - I have googled and googled but it seems a bit of a minefield.
Any advice appreciated regarding this or other financiial things to look our for
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Keep dreaming
9:11 Sat Sep 1
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Rented accommodation, no savings and no pension?
What the hell have you been up to these 16 years?
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normannomates
6:15 Sat Sep 1
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going on your post dingus..she owes you fuck all..
16 yrs marriage ending entitles you to her savings?
not in my world...same if roles reversed.
man up and move on
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normannomates
3:18 Sat Sep 1
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every biird stashes away dough for a 'rainy day'..
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BRANDED
2:03 Sat Sep 1
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In a marriage everything is split 50:50 . The only asvice I can give is always marry someone far richer than you.
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mashed in maryland
11:55 Fri Aug 31
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"If the (soon to be ex) Mrs BigDingus is cunt enough for trying to hide said wedge, Mr BigDingus is well within his rights to be a cunt and try and grab whatever he thinks he should get."
It's her money, not his?
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Darlo Debs
11:22 Fri Aug 31
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Too.much....thats a fucking shit thing for her to do. Sorry. Honestly we arent all.like that. Just lost my mum (not to cancer) its shit enough without someone doing that to.you.
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Too Much Too Young
10:52 Fri Aug 31
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If the (soon to be ex) Mrs BigDingus is cunt enough for trying to hide said wedge, Mr BigDingus is well within his rights to be a cunt and try and grab whatever he thinks he should get.
This is what mine did.
The day after she announced she wanted a divorce (without warning or any chance of even discussing why), she changed the password on the Premium Bonds account I had opened in her name with 20K of the 120k inheritance i got when my mum died 12 months previously. I had already had the max (at the time) 30k in my account, so seemed logical to tuck more away in her name..
A few weeks later, she then says she would have asked for the divorce sooner, but then waited after knowing my mum had cancer and then claimed that 20k as being hers when it came to declaring finances, as it was in her name.
WITHTITSSNAKES
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mashed in maryland
8:17 Fri Aug 31
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El Scorchio 7:11 Fri Aug 31
Surely if you do a good deed like that, good grace would be to not start demanding your money back just cos you and the mum fell out?
Also, if the mum does get particularly cunty, the daughter will always be there to say "but mum he helped me out and never asked for it back" etc.
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The Kronic
8:07 Fri Aug 31
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Maybe he's now auditioning for a slot on Loose Women.
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El Scorchio
7:57 Fri Aug 31
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bruuuno 7:49
Well that's true. Without every detail to hand it's difficult to say who is ultimately 'right' or 'wrong' here.
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Trevor B
7:54 Fri Aug 31
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I think the word 'failed' is a given. If you're an estate agent, then you've officially failed at life.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2758138/Estate-agent-fired-security-camera-records-pinching-chocolate-bar-tenants-flat.html
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bruuuno
7:52 Fri Aug 31
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JAC 7:07 Fri Aug 31
*failed estate agent
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bruuuno
7:49 Fri Aug 31
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El Scorchio 7:11 Fri Aug 31
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I think that would depend on where bigdingus has been dipping his dingus. Hell hath no fury and all that..
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jfk
7:19 Fri Aug 31
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Id be gobsmacked if you receive a penny of her inheritance.
Good from what I can gather there's no kids involved.
Rid your life from her and never look back mate.
All the best.
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El Scorchio
7:11 Fri Aug 31
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I'd have thought it reasonable to ask for enough to cover the amount he agreed to spend out of his own pocket to bail her daughter out of whatever mess she'd gotten herself into?
Actually I'd have expected anyone with any good grace or moral compass to offer to pay that back anyway.
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JAC
7:07 Fri Aug 31
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Bolty,I thought you were an estate agent?...Ive never met one with morals or integrity so Im surprised by some of your comments.....
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boltkunt
6:36 Fri Aug 31
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mashed in maryland 6:24 Fri Aug 31
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End.Of.Thread
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The Kronic
6:30 Fri Aug 31
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Unless there's kids involved.In which case, I'm out.
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The Kronic
6:28 Fri Aug 31
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Yeah, take the money, spunk it all on brasses, drugs, booze and holidays and to hell what other gossiping self righteous cunts say about you.
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mashed in maryland
6:24 Fri Aug 31
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Even leaving "dignity" aside it ain't worth it, tbh.
Even in the spectacularly small possibility that Dingus wins any of that money, the process is likely to take a long long time and cost a fortune anyway. Plus the story to the world will be "jealous vindictive hubby nicks poor woman's inheritance to prove a point".
There's absolutely no way you can win really is there?
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boltkunt
6:22 Fri Aug 31
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Now I know you're being sarcastic.
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